Songs Worthy by Vicola
Marry the suitable person who you can help and who is willing and capable to help you fulfill purpose. Youths don't marry the person cause he or she is available. They may be available now but later on they may become too busy and unavailable for you.
Do not marry someone out if pity.
Do not marry because of money, wealth or fame.
Money has a mind of his own. It comes and gotas the wind. The Bible says money had wings and will fly away. When the money reduces or finishes what will happen to you? And your marriage?
Do not marry for beauty? Face and shape will change. The voice will change with time. Beautiful ones are not yet born. When he sees more beautiful ladies what will happen to his wife that's now older? Marry for God's will, purpose and the future.
Love is good but God's will is better. Love alone isn't enough for a home to be peaceful and blissful. Yes money is good but that alone can not give you peace or health.
Seek God: Find God early. Do not wait till you are past 30 years before your seek God about marriage. Start now.
Marriage is for life: Most people who separate or divorce are never the same. Forget the lies "We are still friends." Open your eyes while you pray and get prepared for marriage. Read books, ask questions and observe.
Know Marriage is responsibility: Are you responsible for yourself and can you be responsible for a lady, young man and children?
Are you ready to commit to one man or lady for life? Loves is beautiful. Marriage is sweet when the two people understand that it requires commitment and not just feelings.
Maturity: Maturity isn't about age alone but are you mature to put your ladies/man needs above yours? Are you ready to support each other dreams? Are you wise and mature spiritually, emotionally maternally and financially?
I'm Vicola -Relationship Coach and Author Who Should I Marry by Victoria Yoosuff
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