WHAT MEN WANT? BY VICTORIA YOOSUFF
LADIES PLEASE TAKE NOTE!
A lot of ladies think because men are moved by what they see, they need to expose their bodies for a man to like, love and marry them. That's so not true. Yes you may attract a man with your exposed body but can you hold a conversation? Can you cook and clean? Can you support and respect him? There are so many things you may do that is wrong and won't make him take you seriously. Read on to discover the major aspect that matter to men.
Men attend to women for two reasons, SEX, and LOVE,but in most cases men do not marry for sex or love, they marry for STABILITY.
Let me explain...
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A man can have sex with you for years without marrying you. But immediately he finds someone who brings stability in his life, he marries her.
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What I mean by stability is "peace of mind"
I have seen some guys who made this statement "I love this lady but I don't think I can spend the rest of my life with her."
Don't be just a sex toy in the hands of men. There are some men who after their wives still goes out to have sex. They may have a beautiful wife, but she may not be able to give him peace or respect so they go out.
"Men are visionaries when they think about marriage, they do not think about wedding, dresses, bride's maid, anything that most ladies think is fanciful."
They think whether this woman can build me a home, can she take care of my children and I, can she give me PEACE of mind? Can she care for my parents and siblings? Men don't like ladies who gives them discomfort, this is why a man can stay with a woman for years and meet another in a month, then get married to her.
It's comfort of having peace of mind they want. If you want him to marry you give him peace of mind. Do not be a drama queen. Don't be a troublesome person. The Bible even says seek peace with all men.
Sex is pleasure, love is affection, RESPECT IS STABILITY.
To keep a man respect him. A comedian recently said men don't need sex or love as much as they need respect. They can get sex form anyone. They don't need attention as much as they need respect. Men even need alone time. He needs his space. So respect him, his judgements, respect his advice or decisions. Do not insult, abuse or insult him in public.
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