Marriage is partnership. It should be a place to help each other grow and thrive. Marriage is a place to Encourage each other. Pray for each other and help yourselves out to ease stress. Communicate in love and become better version of yourselves.
Eccl4:9 (NIV) Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor:
Support with positive words, actions and resources. No woman can foot the bills of the family alone. No man can adequately foot all the responsibility and bills alone without the help and support or his wife.
It breaks my heart when I hear stories of men not doing their part in the home. In my books Mistakes Husbands Make I shared that men should not leave the responsibility of feeding, school fees, house rent, daily recurrent bills, shop rent, income, savings, child birth, medical bills for your wives alone. She will become feed up, stressed and filling unloved. She can never enjoy sex when she's under financial burden. She won't allow you enjoy intimacy with her when shes thinking what else can she do to make extra income, how to pay the money she borrowed, or where the next meal will come from. She won't initiate sex when she's angry with you and crying silently for you to take up the family responsibility and provide for your family. She can't be joyful when she's hurting.
Pick up the responsibility of the home. Get a job, start a business but by all miss help your wife with the running of the home. Do not kill your wife with financial load.
Deut 32:30a (KJV) How should one chase a thousand, and two put ten thousand to flight.
Marriage is all about Synergy... Physically, emotionally, spiritually, financially. Be there for each other.
Endeavor from today to work together to make your marriage work better. Husbands don't leave everything to your wife alone. And wives do not leave all the finances weight on your husband alone. Do something to encourage and ease the stress on your spouse.
As you comply with God's will He will make all things beautiful and blissful in your home in Jesus name amen.
Victoria Yoosuff ©️
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