JAMB Questions For Parents With Teenagers

Jamb Questions for Parents with Teenagers by Victoria Yoosuff 

Instructions: Answer all questions honestly and possible.

Parents Pay attention to your Teenagers 

Mothers watch over your teenagers.

Father's pay attention to your Teenagers 

Some children that grow into teenagers without supervision and education will come close to your innocent teens, have you taught them about sex education?

Have you had time to explain about the changes in their bodies that it is normal and expected?

Have you told them it's normal to be attracted to the opposite sex?

Have you told them to be aware of fake friends, evil uncles and aunts who pretend to be nice but want to sleep with them?

Have you told them not to visit the opposite sex alone?

Have you told them not to all relations of opposite sex living with you touch their private parts?

Have you told your teens not to kiss, hug the opposite sex because it will most end up in Sex?

Pregnant is one of the ways to destroy a destiny?

Have you told your girls that abortion isn't the best way to handle teenager pregnancy? Have you told your teenage girls that the stigma of abortions rings in their head for life making her feel guilty? ( Anytime she hears about abortion in school, church or among friends she will remember of the ones she did or help someone do and she will self unclean, unworthy etc.) Have you told them sex, abortion and homosexuality may be legalize in many countries it doesn't make it right? Tell them it is a sin. God's standard is still the same till forever.

What's your scores? How many were you able to get correctly? I hope you have learnt some 

Parents please speak out. Speak to your girls and boys. They need us now than ever before. Do not make the mistakes our parents made because of ignorance.

Teach your children early about sex and it's dangers. There is a place and time for sex and it's certainly not for preteens or teenagers. Let your children be your friend. Let them be able to speak with you without you judging them. Even if you discover they have had sex, please still love them. Guide them, counsel them or look for a professional counselor like myself to step in so they do not continue in it. 

God will give us all strength, wisdom and insight on how to help our teenagers in Jesus name amen.

Lord Jesus grant me wisdom to be vigilant in Jesus name amen.

Clean Up Your Marriage by Victoria Yoosuff

Clean UP Time!

Make I share this one quickly. I was reading this Bible Passage recently. I have read it many times before. Many pastors has preached on this passage but somehow God took my attention to something else. Please follow me read the passage first.

See you are the other side:

John 13:4-8  He riseth from supper, and laid aside his garments; and took a towel, and girded himself.

After that he poureth water into a bason, and began to wash the disciples' feet, and to wipe them with the towel wherewith he was girded.

Then cometh he to Simon Peter: and Peter saith unto him, Lord, dost thou wash my feet?

Jesus answered and said unto him, What I do thou knowest not now; but thou shalt know hereafter.

Peter saith unto him, Thou shalt never wash my feet. Jesus answered him, If I wash thee not, thou hast no part with me.

Yeah welcome back. I know some of you have read this passage or heard many preaching on this. Let me share what God laid in my heart.

See humility. Men and women humble yourself your home to work. If you want to have a godly home stop claiming rights and taking side or keeping records of evil. Stop keeping records of mistakes of each other. John 13:4 caught my attention first. He put aside his garments. How? 

Jesus put his garments aside. The same garment people will later fight for? Jesus put away his beautiful garment Soliders will later cast lots for? Not just anyone. Not beggers or poor people who couldn't afford good clothes but soldiers who work closely with top leaders and government.

The expensive, clean, fashionable garment. Jesus put it aside for his disciples. He set it aside for the greater good.

Oga put your garment aside. Put your title aside. Madam drop that fancy dresses made by popular fashion designer. Put your titles aside to make your marriage work. Pride dey kill your home. You are always thinking of divorce, separation instead of looking for way to work things out. You still holding unto your garment of office. Drop it, so you can apologize well to her. Call your wife by those nice pet names and draw her to yourself. Hold her tight and make your marriage work. Madam! Wife! Remove the wigs, drop the designer bags and shoes hold close to your man. Clean the make up, the makeup artist did that is confusing you and apologize to your man well. Stop destroying innocent children lives because you can't drop that garments.

See another aspect...

Jesus took towel: You have to carry your own towel to make your home work. Towel is for cleaning. Madam carry the towel and clean what needs to be cleaned about your mind and your man. Mr husband clean your wife's tears. Clean your mistakes by acting right as the leader of that him. Clean your messy life by handing it over to God. 

Clean your marriage up. Clean your children lives by working together and praying for them. Clean up by creating time for your children. Read the Bible to them. Pray for your married youths even after they have married. Don't spoil your children because the society wants you too or because you can afford the fashion clothes and gadgets.

Clean up by taking care of your spouse. Buy each other gifts. Hold hands, hug, kiss each other.  Clean up your marriage aby planning together. Stop hiding things from your spouse. Men and women buy properties without their spouse knowledge.

Jesus girded Himself: Oh my God. He got ready. He prepared Himself because it's work. Girded your body soul and spirit. When you want to wash feet you will smell things. Get ready. 

Jesus them began to wash their feet with water. Husband wash your wife with water till she becomes better. 

Jesus that even knew some people will betray him He still washed their feet. You don't know the future o, yet you somehow can not forgive your wife or husband for what they said or did.

It's time to clean your marriage. 

Pray together that God will clean your hearts, thoughts and actions.

Father help us to clean our home in Jesus name.

Father clean my hands, life and mentally about my spouse and my home in Jesus name Amen.

About the Author:

Victoria Yoosuff is Relationship Coach, Marriage Counselor, Author, Teen Coach, Gospel Ghost Writer, Columnist, Worship Leader and OAP in great demand. She's been featured on many television show, Radio stations, churches, Women Conferences, across Abuja.