Any relationship can become boring if parties involved are not consciously working on their relationship. A relationship can be likened to a garden that requires tending and attention. When the gardener stays away from his duties, wheat will grow that the gardener won't be able to go it.
Practical Ways to Spice Up Your Relationship
1. Date your spouse. Go out on dates. Never stop dating your spouse. Set days aside when you go on dates. Dating isn't only for singles or youths alone. To spice up your marriage you have to date each other. Have fun while picking the restaurant, resort center or dress to wear.
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2. Buy gifts. Remember one of the love languages is giving or receiving of gifts. These gifts doesn't have to be very expensive but let convey that love you have for your spouse. Be romantic while at it.
3. Reinvent yourself. Do not remain on the same level for too long. Look for new ways to build yourself. Invest in yourself. Have goals and run after them. Make sure you consider doing new things for your relationship that make it feel new. Always dress smartly, and nearly.
4. Be open. Sincerity house build marriage. Many people still have a lot of hidden things they have not told their spouse. For instance some have not told their spouse how much they are paid as salary.
5. Talk. Communication is the bloodline of any relationship. You need speak well with your spouse and also speak well about your spouse. Build that cordial relationship where you can talk about anything and everything. Let your spouse be comfortable to call you. Let them that confidence of speaking with you. In my book 'Steps to Martial Bliss' I mentioned that communication is important and the manner of speaking is more important than the message we want to pass. Your tone is important so as not to convey the wrong message.
6. Build Trust. Truth is a scarce commodity in our era, however, we need to cultivate the habit of honesty. Let your words be backed up with accurate actions. Don't make empty promises.
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7. Your Spouse needs matters. The needs of your spouse is valid and important. Ask about their needs be it emotional needs or sexual needs. Discuss this needs and try your best to meet it the way he or she requires.
8. Spend quality time together. As a couple who wants to spice up your relationship you need to spend quality time together. Make this period fun.
9. Create fun ritual. As a couple set aside unique time, days or even months to carry out some special rituals for instance, walking every Friday evening. Naked day or naked night. Visiting in-laws on Sundays. Kissing before living the house every morning.
10. Seek knowledge. Whenever you are confused, seek counsel from qualified counsellor and God's word. Do not assume you know it all or you are always right and your spouse is always wrong. Humble yourself enough to seek knowledge. Read books on relationship and marriage.
I would love to hear from you in the comments section, if you have more tips to spice up your relationship.
Written by Victoria Yoosuff
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