How To Spice Up Your Marriage

How To Spice Up Your Marriage?

Recently I have been asked to speak on how to spice up our marriage. I decided to share some of the tips with my readers today.

1. Discover your purpose for your marriage. If you have great. If you haven't found out why you got married in the first place. Ask your spouse. Have fun while at it.

2. Be Open About Your Needs and Desires:  Quite a number of couples prefer to discuss with other people aside from their partner. This isn't right. If you want to have good intimacy and spice up your marriage you need to be open and discuss with your spouse. How can your spouse meet a need they never knew about? Speak up. Let him or her know your needs. If you want them to hold you, let him know. If it is a call or message, a walk, shopping you need tell him or her.

3. Speak Your Spouse's Love Language: There are 5 main Love Languages. Discover your spouse love language and speak it. If it is quality time the spend time together. If it is affirmations, speak well about them. If it physical touch, please touch them too. Act of service and gifts are also another type of love language. When you speak the right love language they would likely loosen up be willing to spice up your marriage.

Discover Your Purpose Before Love

 Today, I want to drop some tips about what should come first:

Many people want to marry, they want to get into a relationship.

They want to go on dates, do pre-wedding pictures, and do court weddings, traditional and church weddings.

Today let's set the ball rolling in the right direction:

Number 1 most important thing for me is Self Discovery

Discover who you are.

Discover who God wants you to be.

Self Discovery will set you apart.

You will behave with class, assurance of who you are and what you want. You become so sure you know who fits into your life.

You are so sure of your journey and destination that you know the vehicle to enter.

Your purpose will guide you throughout life.

How to find your purpose?

Ask yourself what gives you joy the most?

What do you have passion for?

Ask people around you

Ask your parents

Ask God

Places to look

Look inwards - Check your background, how was it like? What do you have desire for?

What is that thing you long for that you haven't shared with anyone?

Look around you - what do you see around, what would you want to change if given the chance?

Look forward - What do you want to achieve?

If you like this kindly share with your friends and family. 

I am Victoria Yoosuff aka Vicola

Relationship Coach

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