Bold Minds : March 2021

Friday, 19 March 2021

Investment Vs Salary in 2020

Salary is an income you are paid once a month for the work done. I will not beg to live with my simple

SALARY MAY STOP TOMORROW

We often see people who go to work for year's with the hope or retirement and a good pay suddenly lose their jobs unexpectedly. Many banks go to work only to return home they have been sacked.

Many young people who work in a private company suddenly get fired without any previous warning.

Robert Mugabe once Said ...

"When your salary comes in time, you eat chicken. As the salary reduces you eat products of Chicken (Eggs) and subsequently, you begin to eat chicken's foods like maize and millet

Finally, when salary is finished, you become chicken itself,🙄 spending your time walking around just looking for what to eat"!

Your salary is a seed that needs to be planted. It's important you take part of it and invest.

*Salary alone cannot solve all your money problems. Create a plan B now. Always have a plan B for raining day.

A wise investment will provide opportunities for one to always eat Chicken whenever he or she pleases!

*Think INVESTMENT...because you won't be young forever! As you grow older you won't have that energy or focus to keep up.

*Think Insurance...because you won't be strong forever

*Think Entrepreneurship because you won't be employed forever!

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Sex and Marriage by Victoria Yoosuff

Sex and Marriage

Let's talk a little about Sex and Marriage shall we?

Marriage is the union between a mature man and a mature woman. It is the coming together of a Aman and his bride under the life long covenant of marriage.

Marriage is not for the unprepared. It is for those who planned for marriage and not just wedding. Many ladies and men are carried away by the preparation for the one day event and neglecting Qand disregarding the need for adequate preparation for marriage.

Marriage should be based on love and friendship and not just passion and lust.

On the other hand, sex is the meeting of two opposite sex, male and female. That is why it's called an intercourse.

Sex for men is not just for bonding like it is for women. It is also something they enjoy. If you want to enjoy your man and have him perform at his best capacity initiate sex. If you want him to shower you with gift and attention then don't just sit around and waiting everytime to come ask you for sex.

You do the asking.

Dd you know that men like sex but women need sex. In my book S.E.X. Seducing: Exciting: X-rated I shared the benefits of having regular sex. Sex helps reduce or relief you of stress and a lady.

Body pain reduces. You sleep better after good sex. I know many women shy away from as if it is a sin.

Sex in marriage is beautiful. Sex within marriage is very delightful and even miraculous. Sex is a gift to us from God. Do everything to enjoy it with your spouse.

It is big deal for husbands is when their wives initiate sex. Men want to feel sexually desired by their wives! That is love to him.

Men say: When our wives initiate sex, it says that you enjoy sex and that we satisfy you. The sexual satisfaction of our wives is a huge deal to men and a lot of male self-worth hinges on being a good provider both monetarily and (especially) sexually. Sex boosts his confidence and makes him want to do more for you and the children. But when you deny him of sex it's like reject the whole of him and telling him you don't love him.

You need to surprise him by initiating SEX.

Kindly leave a comment below if this was helpful.

Thank you

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Thursday, 18 March 2021

What is Affirmation? By Victoria Yoosuff

Affirmation is one of the *5 Love Languages.* It is spoken word said to people or someone you love and admire. They are kind words spoken to encourage, support, or remind someone's their quality and personality.

Affirmations can also be spoken to oneself to boost self-esteem or encouraging yourself.

Words of affirmation what Successful people use to change their mindset and fortune. Many successful people have affirmations they repeat to themselves every day and for every occasion.

The Bible tells us that there is power in our tongue. The power of life and death is in your tongue. If you keep saying bad words to yourself that is what will begin to happen. Words do not die. Words bounce around. They do not die, the words you speak carry power and will be moving around till it finds a place and time for it to manifest. So you need to be careful what say to yourself.

When you speak good words too to yourself they soon become your reality. So begin to say kind words of affirmation to yourself, your situation, and to the people around you. Create the world you want to see with your words.

If you doubt then search the Internet, you will be astonished and almost bewildered at the number of posts, sites, books, and even pictures on affirmation.

HERE ARE SOME OF MY FAVORITE

You can use them too.

I am the best

I am a money magnet

I am the head and not the tail.

I the more learn, the more I earn

I will take responsibility for my life

I will forgive myself for everything I’ve done

I am about to start a new life

I appreciate and cherish myself more and more every day

I am enough, I am beautiful

I am smart, I am important

I will take control of my life

I am happy with who I am

I find happiness within me

I am taking my life in my own hands

I am blessed, people shall bless me

I am taking care of my body

I am loved by people in my life

I will take responsibility for my life

I will forgive myself for everything I’ve done

I am about to start a new life,

I appreciate and cherish myself more and more every day

I am transforming into someone happy and peaceful

I will be spending my time with positive and supporting people

I celebrate myself

People recognize me as a leader

I am often called on to take charge of a situation

People trust my opinions and expertise

I communicate clearly what I expect of others

I quickly engage others in teamwork to optimize results

I can take the lead

I am a proven leader

People always choose me as their team leader

I am a good decision maker

People look to me for guidance.

HOW TO USE AFFIRMATION

*Search for your affirmations write or print them out, place where you will see them every day.

*You can have it written in your jotter.

*Rehearse it daily to yourself.

*Believe the words your speak to yourself or your situation.

*And I will see you at the top. Have a great weekend.

I am Victoria Yoosuff aka Vicola

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Tuesday, 16 March 2021

Communication in Marriage By Victoria Yoosuff

As I sit to write this I am thinking about couples for whatever reason refuse to talk with each other. They must be in so much pain and discomfort. Can you imagine how you would feel when you have so many ideas running through your mind and you just can't speak out? It must be horrible.

Communication is the imparting or exchanging of information by speaking, writing, or using some other medium.

Every day there is a need to talk and speak. There is the urge to pass information to our spouse.

*Communication is very important to your relationship* We are social beings.

When you talk with God it's prayer. When we talk with our children it could be teaching or giving direction. But with our spouse it's communication. It is an act that needs to be learned. When we learn to speak with the right words and right tone we are understood with ease but when we miss the timing, words, or tone problems can erupt.

For you to have a blissful marriage when there is peace, love, and understanding, communication plays a vital role.

Communication is also very significant to couples especially when it comes to sex matters. Sex in marriage is a beautiful thing. Sex was created by God so couples could pleasure themselves. It is also important to create time to discuss your likes and dislikes. There is a need to communicate your desires because when those needs are met it will lead to unity, love, and oneness.

You should learn to talk and chat with your love partner. Send him or her messages during the day. Find out how their day is going. Call and tell them something nice, not only when you need money or you want them to help you with something.

Social media has made it interesting and fun. You can create a group just for the 2 of you.

Share fun things in your exclusive closed group, it could be pictures, songs, or a funny post. The key is to always talk in love.

Kindly leave a comment below, I would love to hear from you.